Most people carry that pain around inside them their whole lives, until they kill the pain by other means, or until it kills them. But you, my friends, you found another way: a way to use the pain. To burn it as fuel, for light and warmth. You have learned to break the world that has tried to break you. Lev Grossman
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There are many who have lived through terrible things. They have been hurt or abused in their childhood, often by the very people who should have loved them the most. They have grown up with a deep-seated pain, which comes to dominate their lives. This pain may seem to be the end of everything, but for those who can break free from that pain it is not.

It is their means of finding freedom. "You found another way" is referring to the ability to find a way to harness that pain and use it for good instead of evil.

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